EVER CHANGING LIFE...

We know that the only thing certain in our life is “change” but are we ready to embrace changes that happens at any point of our life? What do we do most of the time is oppose change; we always have a repelling feeling for changes that upsets our mind. Of course, changes that bring in good fortune are welcomed wholeheartedly by everyone. We are master in anticipating our future and living magical thoughts which we may not always end up fulfilling because by the time our wishes get fulfilled many new changes comes that hinders the path we planned for us. Everyday a new mystery unfolds; we wake up to a new dawn of our life and we come across changes that lands us somewhere else in our mind, sometimes physically as well. An imaginary flight takeoff and landing happens every minute in our mind. Our thoughts fly off to places where we practically could never reach; a change in circumstances may get us there though (that’s why i say life’s unpredictable). Every fraction of second our thoughts changes, changes that we find happening in our life are not always inspiring but why few changes are so awful that we loathe ourselves whole life for accepting that change?. “Change is inevitable” no one ever could escape change. And it doesn’t happen for today or tomorrow or for few years, it happens throughout our life. Realities and changes regardless of their taste we need to accept because it’s inescapable. when i was a child, I didn’t know where would i be today and I still don’t know where would i be few years down the line, because we don’t have the hold of everything happening or going to happen in our life. Today i live miles away from my parents and my home and i still don’t know where further the life will lead me to.

 Trying desperately to predict our future and fantasizing future is what we love doing but when we fail, inside crumbles into pieces. The eagerness, longing may get harmful for us sometimes. We wish things to go our way but change doesn’t allow that to happen and frustration is always a bad feeling, leaves us worried and tensed only.  But why would we spoil our today thinking about tomorrow of which we are not even sure if exist?

 Why change is such a hard thing to accept? Right from the beginning we are taught to move ahead in life, to achieve high and to work harder, no matter what happens don’t lose hope; this is what we have when everything else seem to have gone wrong from us “HOPE”. Imagine a life without change; I don’t like monotony, do you? Change brings in a new thing to cherish after having lived monotony for long time. So what if we sometimes need to cry (our eyes need to be kept wet and tears washes off the dusts), so what if we cannot enjoy every change that comes in our life because that’s what life is. Sorrows and joys counterbalance each other so that we don’t sink either into too much of ecstasy or into too much of sadness.  If we could live a positive change without complaining than why not any changes that happens? We are inured to the everyday unfolding of new mysteries, all this long we have faced changes and have come out with a new thought. A biological term rightly explains the ever changing life of ours, “Metamorphosis” or rather “mental metamorphosis”, our thoughts are changing every single day of our life and a new thoughts emerge taking a whole new form and moreover don’t you think a change is important in life, Positive or negative? You learn how to walk because you stumbled and fall. Opposing a change, you would only end up dismayed. Nothing is static in life, thoughts are ever changing and so are the people around. (Because individually, their thoughts are changing just like yours)